Thursday, April 3, 2008

Birthday #35

Do you remember when you were a kid, how excited you would get for your birthday? I used to love getting cards in the mail (still love that), love having people call with their birthday wishes (still love that too) and my mom has always (and still does) given me great gifts. Thanks again mom, love the purse and gift certificate.

I can honestly say that this year hasn’t been the best birthday ever….but I can say that I got the best gift ever!

Here is why it hasn’t been the best:
•A sunny bright Thursday morning turned into a cloudy and somewhat wet Thursday afternoon.

•I missed my Thursday morning Bible Study group…in order to take Maggie to the doctor to make sure she didn’t have strep….she doesn’t! AMEN!

•Andy went back to work this morning, but came home again…still sick…yuck!

•I have been doing lots & lots of laundry and lots and lots of spraying of the Lysol can (I think my finger is cramping) ....still trying to kill those germs.

•My back and neck are still hurting from sleeping on the couch last night and letting Andy have the entire bed to himself, that’s what I would want if I were sick.

•Just a regular Thursday! Poor Me!

Here are ALL the good things:
•I got lots and lots of phone calls…and stop bys…and gift drop offs…..I LOVE THEM ALL

•My parents stopped by too and let me run to the post office…by myself…no kids…LOVED IT…I forgot my cell phone at home and found some lovely faces outside the post office.

•My father-in-law & sister-in-law waiting for me to come out of the post office to take me to lunch…..what a GREAT surprise!

•My sick husband and kids got me a new camera…a tiny one…one that will fit in my small purse! I LOVE it too!


But this was the best part of my day and the part that I will NEVER forget:


As many of you know, my wonderful mother-on-law passed away right after Christmas on 12/29 after a very long battle with cancer. I loved her very much as did so many other people. She was the kind of person who could lift your spirits no matter what kind of day you were having. Just being around her made me happy. The past few months seemed to go by so quickly…and I miss her dearly.
As I was in the shower this morning…kinda feeling sorry for myself, (I knew early on that day wasn’t going to be spectacular). I actually heard my mother-in-law talking to me. I know some of you might be saying, yah, sure, whatever…but I actually heard her and I talked back. This is what she said…..Only you can make today a good day, put a smile on and enjoy your birthday. My response was, I know, I know…you’re right! I miss you! Tears were pouring out my eyes! Even in heaven she is lifting my spirits and I thank her for that. What a great gift I got today. I will never forget my 35th birthday! I love you Joy!

Thanks again to all of you who have called, sent cards, or stopped by….and for keeping my little kid birthday feelings alive.

Princess, I LOVE the apron…YOU ROCK!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Aprons are my newest obsession & I knew you would love one. Made just for U from my heart!
Happy b-day,
Princess

Nicole - Life in Progress said...

Traci,
What a sweet story about Joy. I know she's watching your family with such....well, JOY!

Happy Birthday.

Anonymous said...

The story about Joy made me cry. Hope you had a great b-day.

Sarah

Anonymous said...

Traci,
Just got in to see your comments about your 35th birthday.

Here is something that I wanted to share with you.

When someone is in your life for a Reason: It is usually to meet a need you haved expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritaually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometime they die. Sometime they walk away. Sometime they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on. This is what Joy did for you and I know how very much you miss her, but she is still looking down and giving a reason to face each new day.

Love you!
Bonnie

donna said...

oh my goodness! someone stop the tears! how AWESOME! i hope you have many more moments like those. it must make you feel like she is so close and watching over all of you. i'm so happy for you that you got your camera. you are now one step closer to being ready for DISNEY! LOVE YA, donna